Sometimes in life not everything is black and white. Not everything is as it seems. Sometimes you need to dig below the surface to really find the truth.
Have you ever felt that you are the person that everyone comes to for advice when they have issues, they constantly pour out their problems to you but never do anything to change their situation and the second that you have things going on in your life that you need support with everyone seems to disappear? You trust your intuition enough to know that you are not being told the truth.
The people that you thought would always be there for are nowhere to be found. The phone calls stop, the text messages don’t come and you are left feeling isolated and completely alone. You realise very quickly that the only person that you can completely trust and depend on is yourself.
What you have felt for a long time has become a reality; you are THAT friend. The friend that is always there for others whenever they need you, the one that gives advice that they never seem to take, the one that is the interim friend until they find the one they really want to spend time with, the fall back friend. The friend that they will spend time with when no-one else is available. The therapy friend, the one that everyone sucks the life out of and then walks away from when you start to protect and guard your energy as you know you don’t have any to spare. You know you can’t give from an empty cup but if you keep allowing others into your energy field you know that it will be expected that you continue to give. You can feel yourself drowning from the weight that is sitting on your shoulders but you know that you don’t have anyone that is really sitting in your corner that you can depend on anymore.
Know that when everyone starts to walk away from you it is because the Universe is helping you to protect your energy. It is protecting you from ending up an empty shell of a human that you will become if you don’t take the time out that you need to in order to heal. Being alone gives you the ability to find an inner strength that you may not be aware that you have. It also gives you the time and chance to listen as well as focus on working towards what it is that you really need to manifest into your reality. It gives you a chance to find your true purpose. Through pain there can be growth if you don’t allow it to overwhelm you and take over. Change is the closing of one door to allow another to open. Although whilst going through these times may make you feel completely isolated, alone and as if no one understands what you are going through, your guides and angels are with you and sitting beside you at all times so you are never truely completely alone. Given time you will find your tribe, the ones that will walk beside you and accept you as you are!
Love, Light and Blessings 💜💫🙏🏻
starsandblessings 